Do you prefer to try new things regularly, or
do you prefer a stable lifestyle? (psychology)
☆ Let’s Think
1. Do you often try foods you have never eaten, or
do you always eat what you already know? Why?
2. Do you enjoy meeting new people or stick to
very few close friends? Why?
3. What are the disadvantages of each of the two approaches
to life the professor mentions?
Adventurous lifestyle
varieties of experiences, large
network of a variety of friends and acquaintances, strong interest in new
things, life full of excitement and surprise, introduction of new things into
society, unexpected discoveries, flexible and tolerant toward different ideas
and tastes, progressive, often misunderstood by others, full of danger and loss
“A rolling stone gathers no
moss.” (A proverb)
Safety-oriented lifestyle
safe and peaceful life, focused
on protecting the status quo, deep understanding of one thing/person, skeptical
and afraid of new things, possibility to miss opportunities, old-fashioned, often
considered boring, fail to adapt to inevitable changes, You cannot say that you
are really living if you keep avoiding new things
“Life begins at the end of
your comfort zone.” (Neale Donald Walsch)
Decisive reasons for your
preference
way of life (offensive/defensive),
character (active/passive), role model (family member, the person you admire,
famous people, etc.)
☆ Sample for Ideas and Expressions
【Thesis】While I think Samantha is right in that the predictability of routine
leads to peace of mind and indeed it is a factor of happiness, I prefer to keep
trying something new because nothing stays the same forever.
【Supporting
Details】There is always an end or a point of completion of a phase in anything,
beyond which development is barely expected other than enhancement through repetition
of routines. Therefore, when I feel I have experienced something well enough or
when a project gets on track and the work is almost done, my mind becomes less
activated. I find it hard to keep the same degree of passion in the present as
before, and naturally, I start seeking for a novelty for growth.
【Counterargument-treatment】This does not mean that completion and sophistication are psychologically
less important than launch and endeavor to establish a pattern, but it is
natural for a mind to look for a new experience. It is also true that
continuation of monotonous daily life and steady practice of routines can be
the matrix of evolution, and thus I don’t take light of conventional lifestyle.
but my preference for changes won’t change.
【Conclusion】It is instinctive for us humans to try to
expand ourselves, and I think I’m just following the rule in this sense. (208 words)
DRAFT
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